One of my goals at the beginner of this year is to look after myself by eating right,keeping fit , taking time out alone to regain my sanity as a woman, wife and mum, just loving myself generally.

Despite having four kids that keeps me on my toes and helps me keep fits without realizing, l still hit the gym and most especially attend exercise classes because that is what works for me .I was determined to love myself first and look after me without apology.

Eating healthy was also a great success with the help of my hubby, who wouldn’t play with his warm lemon water with apple cider vinegar in the morning and always make me drink a glass first thing in the morning.Now, l can’t live without it and a big jar of green delicious smoothie every other day and at least 8 glasses of water.l am more conscious of what l buy,eat and drink  and very happy with how l look and feel within me.

Do l actually travel for relaxation? The answer is NO. I take a day out of my week to do me.whatever l want and love to do without distraction and kids i.e stay in bed till late,l call  it ” MY LAZY DAY” or hang out with friends,go shopping,spa day or just get a book and read to get inspired and motivated  for my next task. l always look forward to my free lazy day because l need that fresh breath of air to gather myself together.

Someone will ask” was the journey smooth and easy” No. Did l struggle to make it happen ? Yes but was it worth it at the end, the answer is YES.

l want to encourage you that whatever is it that you wrote or written down, thought of or promised yourself at the beginning of 2018 and you are still not there yet or not achieved yet, there is still time to get up and go for it. There is nothing like impossibility except you are not determined. You are your own excuse.

Make up your mind today and keep telling yourself ” l can do all things”. Self Love is very important,you love yourself first by taking great care of yourself then you will have a huge and clear heart to look after others.

This is my self-love story ,l love to hear yours. What did you aim for or promised yourself at the beginning of this year and you’ve achieved, what was the motivation around it, that made it possible . Comment below, l can’t wait to read from you.

Stay connected , until next time.






37 thoughts on “MY SELF LOVE STORY

    • Sure ,l’ll definitely check your channel out and thanks for checking my blog out.Don’t be a stranger ,keep in touch

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  1. Great advice!! One of my goals is to make time for myself just 1 hour a day. I’m always running after kids or after errands.

    • Don’t worry hope. A step at a time, just take baby steps and you will find yourself in the hobby of looking after yourself.Just look for what works for you and you will be fine.Thanks a million for checking me out.

  2. Life gets crazy. Sometimes we forget that we need to take some time out for ourselves. We do everything for everyone but if you don’t take care of yourself you can’t help others. You are doing well with all of your responsibilities. Congrats!

  3. It is important to not let the promises you made to yourself be forgotten or lost because of other things that happened, it’s always good to have a day for yourself, to do what you want and when you want, and it’s always good to work on yourself to be a better person than you were before.

  4. Hey…nicely done. I also started the habit of taking warm lemon water in the morning. Also, drinking more than 8 glasses of water. But some how , I fell off the wagon. Can you suggest some ways to keep this habit ?

    • l’ve made it an hobby to have a flask of hot water, bottle of water, Apple cider and lemon squeeze in the cup in my room at night ready to go in the morning . l also have a bottle of water in the car and when l’m not driving l always always leave home with a small bottle of water. Hope this helps. Wishing you luck.

  5. What advice do you have for one who practices self-love but still get unsecured. At the end of the day, it is as if you never Loved yourself at the first place

  6. I agree that self care is so important. As moms, we hardly have any time for us but it is important to take out time to do things that you enjoy.

  7. I enjoyed reading your blog and can definitely relate. I agree self love is important. Thanks for sharing!

  8. It is indeed admirable for people like you who still keep health as one of the top priorities despite of having so many responsibilities as a mom. Good luck in all your endeavors!

  9. I think it is good to have goals, and wanting to have some “me” time. Nothing like self-love because if you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to? Great post and hope you accomplish all your goals you made.

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